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Originally posted by PearlEssence08
[B]When I was in college, I remember a freshman girl wearing a shirt that said "I am a Future AKA." I went to Spelman, so needless to say there should have been NO EXCUSE WHATSOEVER FOR HER TO WALK UP IN THE CAFE WEARING THAT SHIRT. Although, I was not a soror yet, I knew better than to do something like that.
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Originally posted by the411
Soror ASU Diva2001 brought it to our attention that a greek shop she visited was selling t-shirts FOR ADULTS that said "Future Delta"  !!!!! I can't think of the words (appropriate for a public forum and my lady-like manner) that could even come CLOSE to expressing my disapproval of that. But check THIS out:
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Not to say that it is right.....But mothers DO buy those shirts for their GROWN daughters AND expect for them to wear them...I've seen it happen
However, I read a few posts back about how there is some pressure to join a specific org. by parents who are in specific orgs.. I can honestly say there is a reasonable amount of disappointment (including some parents) by children of fellow organizations. Because of this, they often feel hurt, "cheated", "betrayed, etc. which can lead to depression. Should they be depressed , probably not...But these circumstances are not unusual especially when you come from a family of "over-achievers", "big shots", etc.... just something to think about