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1) Is it going to conflict with my strong affirmation with being a Christian man
My thoughts:
If that happens, it is more a reflection of your conviction than the frat. Every man needs to be a man, and NO frat can teach that. My Older Brother Taught me that "Men make Kappa, Kappa does not make Men"
The Founders of Kappa were God fearing men, and I have quite a few frat that LOVE Kappa and are no less devoted to the Lord.
2) is it still really all about achievement...Trust me I do love all the flash and glamour but I can be a model for that
My thoughts:
We are the NUPES! Flash and glamour comes with the territory, but that is the "be all end all" only in the minds of those whose intentions were questionable to begin with.
3) I wanna be the one to make a serious impact on the community and the organization. Will the frat allow me to do that or will I just be forced to fall in the ranks
My thoughts:
You can make an impact in your community without the frat, however, the affiliation does offer quite a few avenues and resources and opportunities to serve if you desire.
I hope I helped you. To make myself clear, I am NOT trying to convince you. If you want it, you don't need convincing.But Don't take my word, DO YOUR HOMEWORK, FOLLOW YOUR HEART, and LET THE SPIRIT GUIDE YOU.
....and If you are worthy, I will see you on them golden shores......
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