Wow, I feel like a bad sorority girl.
I have 2 black dresses, but one is velvet, and the other is sleveless.
I used winterwhite (cream??) color for my initian/pinning. it was the middle of winter, and we had a week's notice to get the stuff. i was lucky i found that one.
i recently bought another white dress, but it has flowers at the bottom...i think i'm going to try and get away with it for ritual.
thats me-forever trying to get away with as much as possible
edited to add:
as a side note, do you guys really wear all black to funnerals?? i flat out refuse to wear all black. you should be celebrating the person's life, and the fact that they are in a better place. i already told friends/faimly that no one is to wear black to my funneral (not that i plan on having it anytime soon, but just in case.....)
just my humble opnion.