I'd say communication is key, but also to find somethings that you two have in common (thisis hypothetical because I realize that this thread may not pertain to you). Extracurricular activities, intellectual activities, something besides the romantic things (i.e. exsay, hugging, kissing, etc).
Also, I would say to KNOW that the romantic intimacy that usually is what makes the relationship SEEM like a storybook in the beginning, IS going to die. After 3 or 4 years, the novelty and excitement IS going to wear off...point, blank. There had better be something else there or else there will be a slow deterioration.
Let me think of some more and I'll be back.
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