Though this isn't much to go by, SXO seems to be a pretty level-headed fraternity. Check out their website. They are very personal and are not looking to expand for the simple reason that they are so young. Also, I e-mailed their webmaster and within a few days he responded curteously. Anyway, just check out their site because I think the way SXO is handling being on TV is a lot better than DZO.

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