I worked with this one man, and one day he asked me to help him do some filing. I wasn't busy at the time and part of my job was to help out when it was needed. So I said sure. I spent the day doing his filing and I was done. Well I had other more pressing work that needed to be done, but he started assuming that I was his personal secretary (no just because I have a vagina does not make me a secretary). So I said to him that I would help him when I had some time. He kept hounding me to do his filing so one day I snapped. I yelled at him. I said look I can't do your filing right now because I have more important work to do, you have enough time to harrass me about it, so you have enough time to do it yourself. If not you'll have to wait till I am free. Well he was quite shocked that I had told him no. He's the type of man that usually is around women that don't stand up for them selves. He never had a woman put him in his place before. I was quite proud, and he never bothered me again. I am a smart woman, so don't assume because I am young and female that I can't do anything except your filing!
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