Rebecca,
Welcome to Greek Chat! You have come to the right place! There are some terrific AOII's on this board, several of who are AI's to AOII!
I have some AOII specific information here:
http://www.alphaomicronpi.org/conten.../aluminit.html
http://www.alphaomicronpi.org/PDF%20...itiate-F02.pdf With thanks to aopirose for this link....updated on March 16/2003
and also have a look here:
My Advice to Prospective Alumnae Initiates.
and I have taken the liberty of adding you onto
A Roll Call of Alumnae Initiates and Prospective Alumnae Initiates! Hope that is alright with you?
Good luck and I hope you find your way home to
AOP! 
Hopefully, you will wear one of these
at some point in the near future!