I totally feel what you are going through. My viewpoint is... every nice guy is not meant for every nice woman. Just because the two of you are seemingly compatible to everyone else does not mean you two can be together or will be happy together.
Me and my last boyfriend went through something so similar. At one time I thought this was the guy I was going to marry. Then our outlook on life changed. He's still a wonderful guy who can make someone happy... but that someone just is not me. People told me that I was crazy for letting him go, but those people cannot live my life and have no impact on my future happiness.
So my advice.. it may hurt for a while, but I'm sure you made the right decision for YOU. The only person whose happiness you can control.
I wish you peace.
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...Taking control of my beauty... loving me for me...
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