I just think that as some people get into their lives, other things (family, career, etc.) take over, and they associate their undergrad Greek life with their Greek affiliation in general. When they talk about how college was, they talk about how they "were" in a fraternity or sorority.
Doesn't make them bad people, and doesn't mean they've forgotten what their org was all about.
That's the best part about joining one - it can be different things to different people.
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