I hear what you're saying SIlverblue. Since i have lived hee my entire life, I know a lot of people who go to my school, but don't really know any sisters personally (although i met a couple during orintatin...nice girls
) I got a lot of "Oh, all the girls at ABC are b**chy ," or "The girls at XYZ are really snobby and stuck-up." But I also realize that these comments are coming from people who not only have no interest in being greek, but can sometimes go out of their way to be just plain mean about the whole system. I figure if I want any kind of trustworthy opinion, I have to wait until rush when I can make one for myself. A lot of people I think are looking for those comments so they can make the weeding out process a little easier ("Oh, I won't even try at this house because Suzie told me they were all social outcasts.")