At my school we have defered recruitment. I had made up my mind I wanted to be in XYZ. I think it was b/c I got to know one of their sisters so well and she was a sweetie. Well they cut me right before pref. I got my invites for pref and just stared at it, left the room, and just bust out into tears in the arms of my best friend. Breaking down in public is something I do not do! LOL So I dropped out of rush but got a snap bid from DG. I just didn't feel right there but my roomie went DG. So over the next several weeks the DGs would come by to see my roomie and I got to know some of them pretty good and we went out and did stuff. And you all are going to think I'm nuts when I say this but I swear I would be sitting there (on my hall somewhere) and be thinking about the DGs and I swear the next thing I knew they were walking down the hall! Not the whole chapter, just a couple of girls and they were coming to see me! The next thing I knew they handed me another bid! And I accepted! Looking back, I just don't think I would have fit in to XYZ. I had/have so much fun with my DG sisters! Sometimes I think God knows whats better for you than you do or what you think is the right answer. I was meant for DG and didn't even know it!