I am unfortunatley in a wedding where eveything is just so poor quality. She has three different kinds of Hallmark wedding invitations and thats just for her side of the family her groom hasn't picked out his yet. She has no real color scheme or anything that ties everything toegether to make it classy. Some woman who they know can cook is making the food not catering it and she wants to have all plastic and paper for her wedding reception. And on top of all this they have no money and they are ages 20 and 22 coming out of thier parents house. I want to voice all of my concerns but I don't know how she will take them. My concerns are basicaly that they should find some independance first and save so they can have a "nice" wedding and start a life together securley and not just a thrown together cheap affair and no real plans for the future. Together they have had six diffrent jobs in the past year so they have zero job security. And are planning to buy a house, again with no money saved up.
Does anyone have any advice on what I should do? The plans are already set in motion and I don't want to ruin her excitement but I think she is just moving way to fast with out enough of a saftey net and forethought. And we used to have all these dreams when we were younger and we would sy that "we are not going to have some tacky thrown together wedding" we both said that we would have "classy" weddings that we could be proud of. That just doesn't seem to be happening on her side.
(SORRY FOR THE LONG POST THIS HAS BEEN ON MY MIND FOR A WHILE)
