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CutiePie:
Sorry if you misunderstood - I in no way meant to say any of that was my opinion, as we had several members we bent the rules for, since they were great sisters. I was just trying to play devil's advocate.
The way I first read it, it sounded like she was going to mixers, sister events, everything fun except for meeting and ritual - if that wasn't the case, and she was just doing things like hanging out at the house and helping with rush decorations and such, that's a different story. I guess the main thing I didn't understand is that the national wasn't saying "why is this girl still hanging? is she initiating or not?" I mean, if someone was that close in grades, we would initiate them rather than draw it out. That's just a difference in orgs I suppose.
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