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Old 05-28-2003, 03:07 PM
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Be prepared to be alone a lot. I come froma military family.

It depends on your temperment more than any advice we can really give you. It depends on how much you need "your man" around you, and how busy you are in your own life.

And how much physical attention you need.

If you need a lot of physical attention, or a lot of emotional support from the man in your life, you are looking at being unhappy a lot. And maybe even not knowing why.

And worse you could wake up many years from now (as many military brides do) and realize why. And feel like you wasted a lot of time.

IF you are the type of person that doesn't need a lot of the above, or have developed a lot of "surrogate" support systems then you should be fine.

but if you have developed a lot of surogate support systems either you won't need him anyway lol.

But most of this advice applies to long term committment lol. As for "dating" just have fun.
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