I agree, I have flamed Iconoclast before and found that it did nothing but piss me off. I totally understand (and echo) the dissenting viewpoints, but have found the best way to keep him off our site is by ignoring him. I even posted a reply to his inflammatory post and then editied yesterday so that it would be on topic. Almost all of us here love being greek, support being greek and will probably NEVER change our minds about that. So there's no need to argue.
As I do strongly believe in free speech, I do think that if anyone feels strongly enough to desire to talk about this subject they should (in another thread devoted to that source). not that I have any right to tell anyone else what to do...just my personal opinon.
I LOVE being Greek, and even though I'm not a Christian I enjoy and appreciate the presence of Christianity within my sorority and the hearts of my sisters. I think the Christian references we use are very appropriate for anyone, it enforces principles that any caring and mature person would want to incorporate into their life. I don't see how it could be offensive to a non believer.