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Originally posted by valkyrie
My boy has a theory that is it never a good idea to take a step backward. To me, taking a break is just that. Taking a break seems like the thing that you do when at least one of the people in a relationship probably wants to split up for good but for whatever reason is afraid to do that. It's kind of like "let's-see-other-people-lite" or something.
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This is kind of how I feel. I'm not sure what we'll gain from it. I live in the sorority house and spend TONS of time with my sisters and independent girlfriends anyway, so it's not we're around each other 24/7. We both study a lot so we're often busy with that even if we are together.
I think the real reason I'm so frustrated is that he told me he'd call when he wanted to hang out again. I feel like that gives him all the power and choice in the relationship. It's starting to make me grumpy and I'm worried that the 'break' will cause even more fights. Hopefully it will work like texas*princess said and we will chill out but I feel like the parameters of the break put me in an odd place.