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Originally posted by uwgirl
I ended up dropping rush in the fall because I went to pref night for a sorority I could tell I wouldn't have been happy in. I was really disappointed, but it was for the best so I tried going through spring rush and sure enough, I got my top choice from the fall and of course again in the spring...Chi Omega! 
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Hey, girl! You sort of dropped off the face of the earth for a while after rush last year. I'm really happy to see that all of my fellow Madison chicas are in the right place-- Sugar & Spice in Tri Delta, BadgerRushee in Theta, and now you in Chi O! Yay!
I did get my first choice-- I watched the sororities for a year and then rushed Kappa alone during informal my sophomore year. It was the Kappas, my big sis especially, who made me see that Greek was a good thing to be, and that Kappa was the right place for me (look, a rhyme!). I know that if I hadn't gotten a Kappa bid, I'd still be independent.
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Originally posted by sherbertlemons
I think I would cry pretty intensely about not getting my first choice initially, and then suck it up and really enjoy my second choice. That's just the way I do.
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Agreed. I often wonder what would have happened if I'd've gone through formal recruitment. Realistically, knowing what I know now about the rushing styles and the personalities of the groups on campus, I'm pretty sure that I'd either be a Kappa or one other (we have three), and I'm pretty sure I could've been happy there, too.
But hey, I truly believe that everything works out the way it's supposed to, and many things have happened since to show me that Kappa's the place for me!