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I didn't know about your loss, I am so sorry.
Two hearts have been broken, and to be drawn to another in this situation is so natural, there is no need to second guess your feelings or even your motives. I believe in the other side being able to communiate with us and guide us as long as we need them. (Even at times we are unaware we need them.) Never assume something is chance when perhaps there is a greater force at work.
As long as the ring is not a family heirloom, you should keep it. It IS a symbol of his love for you. My Grandmother was engaged to a young boy who died suddenly. She put the ring away and when I was 18, the same age she was when she received it, she gave it to me. She told me the story of how he died and how they had planned to marry. In my mind, after all those years, she found a way to keep his memory alive.
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