[KissASinfonian]

OK. So I am confused about something and I just need some advice. As some of you know, I lost my boyfriend to leukemia in November of 2002. I am happy to say that I am making progress but I dont think I am ready to start dating again just yet. However, I work with a guy and he has been through the same thing....(His fiancee was killed in a car accident two years a go.) I have decided that I am not going to wear my *ring* from Justin to work anymore and someone took that the wrong way as if to say I am "finally giving Justin up." THATS NOT WHAT I MEANT....It is just a way for me to help move myself in a positive direction. Now my question is (after all of this rambling) would it be totally improper to ask Jason (the guy from work) out for coffee or something. Not as a date but as a way to have someone to talk to since he has had the same experience as me? I dont want other to people to think I am moving away from Justin too fast but then again I dont care what other people think because sometimes I just need to feel some attention from the opposite sex. (NOT SEXUAL attention just someone to talk to....)
Also, Am I allowed to keep my *ring* or do I need to give it to his family.....I would like to keep it but not wear it. His family and I have a wonderful relationship still so it would be OK either way.
Anyone with any advice would be appreciated.
THank You SO MUCH....
mlk