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I believe that soulmates do exist... and the feeling is so intense that you'll know without a shadow of doubt. It's more than just love, it's pure acceptance for who that person is. So many times, we get caught up in wanting the brother that is 6'4", 250, brown skin, bald head, with the sexy eyes... and when we get caught up in the surface, we get short changed on the deeper person. Mistake number two would be looking for a soulmate. We as women shouldn't look for a soulmate, but pray for God to send our soulmates into our lives. Looking to hard for a man that has everything, will again leave us being short changed on the deeper person. Now ladies, we are all worthy of a wonderful man, and I am not saying by any means lower your standards of what you are worth... but be willing to at least get to know people that are not quite there yet. Not saying a relationship has to evolve, but getting to know new people allows you to have a better understanding of what type of person you do and don't want in your life. Also, have patience, and be able to recognize potential. There are good black men out there... but many are diamonds in the rough... and sometimes it takes a good black woman to brings that sparkling diamond out... Try not to let one or two bad expereinces with our brothers leave you totally bitter. They need us as much as we need them. Much love and continue to have faith in our black men.
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