Butterfly,
I can hear the pain in your situation, and I pray that God sends angels of healing to you, and that you are able to recieve them.
As for your opinion of "slutty sorority girls" two things 1) Why didn't you attribute the "slut factor" to the university? You said that it was the greeks from a nearby university, It would seem to me that they were more alike in that way than in a greek way. It sounds like you had some grudges against greekdom anyway.
2) So what if ALL sorority girls were total HOES!!! What does that have to do with you? We are a closed society unto ourselves. Our ways and training and culture are not ment to be understood or even liked by everyone. That's not even the goal. If you feel that sororities don't do a good enough job of training young ladies, you've got two choices, join and change them from the inside out, or leave us alone. But I will tell you this, If you are on a kick about the morals of young women today, why would you start with the ones who are in college, trying to make a better life for themselves, committed to public service, in bonds of sisterhood, and (at least striving) for excellence? It would seem to me that you'd make a better impact on our Teenage mothers and child crack addicts.
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If you can't raise conciousness, at least raise hell!--Rita Mae Brown
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