I do think that my boyfriend is disgusting because of what he did. I did not bring up that side of the situation because I chose not to. What he did is even worse that what that girl did...I know that. I wasn't ever trying to trash sororities as a whole...or even that girl's sorority. I was just commenting on how its a bit disappointing that the positive aspects of being in a sorority can't and don't always help all of those involved in it. That's all. Yes, I am angry and bitter, I will admit that. And perhaps in light of my anger, I didn't make my arguement very clear.
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Originally posted by silentlamb_34:
Butterfly, are you sure that you're not just using the fact that this girl was in a sorority as a way to trash her? Yes, she did do some seriously questionable things, but like you said, it takes two to tango. Why isn't your ex-boyfriend the dirty one for having unprotected sex with someone that he had known for only a couple of weeks? I am sorry if your heart was broken,and I can understand that you have a lot of hostility towards the girl, but don't trash her organization (or sororities as a whole) in an effort to get back at her.
S.O.T.L.
Spr.99
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