Butterfly, are you sure that you're not just using the fact that this girl was in a sorority as a way to trash her? Yes, she did do some seriously questionable things, but like you said, it takes two to tango. Why isn't your ex-boyfriend the dirty one for having unprotected sex with someone that he had known for only a couple of weeks? I am sorry if your heart was broken,and I can understand that you have a lot of hostility towards the girl, but don't trash her organization (or sororities as a whole) in an effort to get back at her.

S.O.T.L.
Spr.99