Butterfly,

After reading your last post, I can understand why the soror's would feel as if you're generalizing and associating them with being ho's. Your man played you and the other girl for sex. Yes you and she should be pissed. It appears that since she happened to be in a sorority, it seemed to have pressed your little "hate greek" buttons. Well you are mad at the wrong person. Hell I wouldn't be shocked if you're still seeing the guy in some capacity. My advice: Take it to Ricki Lake, it's not for us to review you personal business. If you put it out there then expect us speak up.

As far as the greeks responsibility to improve people and all that other nonsense, I can only speak my frat. when I say, we expect you to come the table correct. We don't make you better or worse. You are supposed to have it together when you step to us. Yes, when you represent the frat, yoiu need to have your "A Game" ready. But then you need to take what you have learned and apply it to life to maybe enhance who you are. But I as a member of a greek lettered org. I am not responsible for making people better. That's crazy. You want to be better join the Army and "Be All You Can Be".

Peace!