[Glitter650]

I think that if they just graduated one or two years ago alums coming back for parties and stuff is cool, if they are like 35/40 coming back every weekend to kick it, that is just trying to hold onto a part of your life that you sohuld've moved on from by now. I mean we have some advisors who are fairly recent grads... (they are all creeping up on 30) and they go out out with us after meetings and have a drink sometimes and have a good time at formal and its totally cool, but coming back for EVERYTHING at like 40 just shows a lack of ability to move on in life, also more mature alum should be there to guide and give advice... I personally wouldn't respect an alum's opinion as much if I just saw her getting wasted at a social last night or trying to hit on a 21 year old guy adn she's 45... ya know ??