I know that I will only pursue or allow myself to get pursued by men with the same goals both career wise and personally. I am not going to date a guy who never wants children because I know I want them badly so I am not going to put myself in the situation to get all wrapped up and then be heart broken later. I also know that you can't control who you fall in love with but you can control who you date so as not to fall in love with someone who does not meet my same goals in life. I don't know if this makes me a snob but I want a nice white collar man who knows how to work for everything he gets and we are headed up the coporate ladder together
.I don't want a Gina Martin relationship where she is moving and shaking in the corporate world and he can't relate.
Sorry for the long post.