Just asking....
Can a Black man be dog simply because that is his personality? Or should the weight of the Black male species force him to pretend he is something he is not-- only for a "good" woman to find out differently after she's invested her time.
Can a Black woman be cautious because her mother taught her better w/o being labeled frigid? Or should she be gregarious, non-threatening, and needy so that she will not be pegged as "too strong" for a "good" black man?
Can we ever stop being Dr. Phil impersonators long enough to actually enjoy or learn from one-on-one relationships? Or must every relationship be tied to the fate of world?
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