In my experience of being in a service sorority that said you COULD be in 2,
YES it will bother them. You cannot have equal loyalty, nor can you meet enough time requirements to be in both and have both orgs happy with you as a member. You cannot get as much from 2 sororities at the same time that you can with one because you cannot put your whole heart into 2 sororities at once. When my service org heard that I wanted to rush for the NPC groups, they didn't talk to me for 2 weeks. This along with other reasons led me to disassociate. There are groups that make dual membership easier, and there are some in which it doesn't hurt a thing. I know several NPC alum that are in Beta Sigma Phi as well.
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