Soror Discogoddess,
It has nothing to do with love or hate. It's a matter of preference. I have friends who are dating men that I don't care to be around. I have family members whom I don't keep company with. Am I cordial? Yes. Do I hate them? Certainly not. I choose who I keep company with. As a matter of fact she did not want to be around the man that I was seeing at the time. That was her preference and I respected her feelings. Just because she is my friend does not mean I have to be apart of her choice. Don't get me wrong. I am not saying that I would be mean or anything like that. I just prefer not to be bossom buddies. "It's like that and that's the way it is."
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You are the master of your own destiny!
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