I am the first 'Greek' girl in my family, and I honestly had *no idea* what a big deal formal recruitment was until I transferred schools! When I was moving in, I could see all the Rho Gamma groups going to each chapter room, and all the decorated cars & everything! I went through spring informal, but was very lucky to have GC for all the tips on the little things like which questions are good questions to ask, etc, and I found the house of my dreams.
If I ever get blessed with a daughter (not now! maybe like in 10 years!) I will definately try my best to get her prepped for rush.