I had that similar incident happen to me a while ago. It was actually a family member who just happens to be my bestfriend also. She confided in me and at first I was shocked. Honestly I have very strong feelings about homosexuality. I come from a family where this behavior is STRICTLY forbidden, but I could not let that come between us. I accepted and told her I will love her just the same. Now as I have matured, my views have changed. She still is the same person, but her preference is different.