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Originally posted by justamom
The last two posts bring up a sub topic which is becoming more and more important as each year passes.
I honestly think it's time to be very careful how we handle legacy issues. Sororities and fraternitis have been around long enough that legacies, especially on particular campuses are outnumbering the available spots. AND, let's face it, as mentioned in the previous posts, a good fit may not always be with a chapter where you are a legacy.
My son has legacy status with 3 really solid fraternities. His father's is an excellent fraternity represented on the campus he will be attending. I WILL NOT, I HAVE NOT fed him the idea that he will be a shoe in for ANY of these fraternities. What if he were to be cut? I really think we need to be careful when we discuss the topic of "legacy" with our children...but then, I really do try to head off any "avoidable" pain and sometimes I may be too cautious.
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As always, JAM speaks the truth
BUT...I need to point out that JAM's experiences pertain to Southern rush. Wouldn't you agree, JAM? North of the Mason-Dixon line I think a legacy would have to be a pretty obvious non-fit with the sorority or fraternity to not be offered a bid. I'm talking about being blatently rude to picking his/her nose during the parties. I think it's very unlikely a legacy would be cut due to too many legacies/not enough spots at a Northen school.
Anyone agree or disagree? I could possibly be a little off the mark.