Soror AKA_Monet, I just had to say I LOVED your post!!!!!!! LOVED IT!!! It definitely gave me a new perspective. I'm tellin' yall, I went to DC for the weekend, had some nice sisterly relations, a couple dates... it was just very refreshing. But I think the thing that has given me a totally new attitude about this whole dating/marriage thing (and yall are probably gonna trip offa this one) was the movie American Beauty. After seeing that, I decided that life was too short for this mess, and I wanna have fun. So later for all my depression!!!