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Sit down with your husband and have a long talk.
Get your own checking account-balance your own checks so you will know what has or has not cleared.
If he has control over all he finances, you better pray he never falls into a coma. Do you have a power of attorney?
My husband and I both have good jobs with high income but we don't ever seem to have any money. There is NOT drinking, drugs, gambling or another woman involved because I definitely checked. I think he is just bad at managing money.
...or he has some credit card debt that you are unaware of and it is taking a huge bite out of your discretionary income. Have you sat down and taken a good look at each and every check he has written over th past year? Money does NOT disappear into thin air, it has to go somewhere.
I wish you luck with your status.
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