I'm very picky on the men I date. Remember how picky Matt was on the Real World, New Orleans? That's the extent of my pickiness as well. I don't have a preference for skin color, I go exclusively on personality and ambitions. For some reason I attract older married men, enough said.
Consider yourself blessed that you have a good black man, Miss Mocha. Many women in my family do not.
As for black women outnumbering black men as comparable mates, it's true. If a black man is in incarcerated, married, or homosexual, that's one less eligible black male. (for me, at least) US census data will show that we outnumber black men. When I get some time, I'll find the data.
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