What's up to all in here? As far as myself being in the relationship game, I never was a very good "participant" in that I never had women tearing down my door to kick it with me. I was married for a VERY short time to a single mom which was a disaster. But after I got saved (about 2 years ago), my need and priorities for a wife changed dramatically. Now I am a 27 year old accounting professional about to enter graduate school for an MBA, lives in a brand new house in the 'burbs and goes to church 2-3x a week and NOT ugly. And to think that 2 years ago I was divorced, broken, and bankrupt. But at this point in my life I am not looking for a wife b/c I am just letting God use me His way. Now I do have a woman who is about to move back to Ohio that is interested in a courtship with me, but should something happen, good, bad, or indifferent, that is OK.
God can bless you more effectively when you drop your courtship/engagement/marriage timelines and even certain criteria for a mate (If God sent you a white man, would you feel blessed?). For a long time I had a problem with dating single moms due to my marriage to one. But just last weekend I spent a blessed day with her and her son and that problem no longer exists for me.
My point is, sistas, that God can bless you more effectively when something at one time you really sought after(ie a husband)means nothing to you now.
My .25 cents
Rain Man
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