I will tread lightly,least I get my fingers slapped on this one. But sistas, you sound like wonderfull, dynamic ladies that any man would be proud to call his wife. My thing is when it is ment to happen it will. I know this is easy to say, but it is so true. I have to believe that God will send a man to you when he feels that you are ready to accept him into your life.
Sometimes whe think that we are ready, and we really are not. I recently got out of a long term relationship. Now me and this woman had talked about marriage, and I knew that I was ready to settle down now that I have my career started. But quite honestly, God had other plans, becuase me and her really weren't ready.
I say this becuase women are not the only ones who sometimes wonder when will I get called to the big dance. While men don't have biological clocks, we do have watches and we count the years just like women do. I believe that most men want to eventually settle down and have a family.
I would always tell my ex that if we didn't make it, that she was going to make it better for my next. I happen to believe that.
I have to go back to that scene in Waiting to Exhale, when you have 4 lovely, successul sistas sitting around drinking wine and just chilling. Now those are the kinds of parties I want to go to. You can have the club.
I can't wait to have my bros singing the sweetheart song to my wife. I will patiently bide my time until the man upstairs decides that I am ready to accept someone into my life.
Peace, Luv, and Good Luck
MN
[This message has been edited by ManndingoNUPE (edited November 29, 2000).]
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