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Originally posted by RubberSoul
I truly want her to be happy and if she goes to a school where she just doesn't feel that the chapter is a good fit, I would understand. I want her to be a part of a super strong and involved chapter. Fortunately, that means in most cases she has no excuse not to love Chi O!!!!!!!!
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i think this is so important to stress with this whole "grooming" thing........whenever i have a daughter, naturally i want her to be an alpha gam, but i want her to go where she is happy and feels comfortable. i'm a legacy to aopi b/c that's what my sister is, just at another school. but i knew alpha gam was the place for me hands down....it sucks knowing i could have this extra bond with her, but i had to go where
i ultimately felt the most at home (aww).
and more so than her bein in the "popular" sorority, i want her to have the experience of the best sisterhood. there is a sorority that i am not the biggest fan of (c'mon, we ALL have them), but even if my daughter got a bid from that group, as long as she was happy and with a group of ladies who supported her and loved her, and hell even if it was the only bid she got, i would support her decision and encourage her to be apart of the greek system.
GO GREEK 
and what's interesting is that my alpha gam chapter and my sis's aopi chapter are extremely similar....so who knows what would be if we were at the same school....