[CatStarESP4]

Lost, I am sorry to hear about your predicament. Do you have a joint checking account with your husband? If so, I suggest you open a separate account and control the money that comes in and out. Another suggestion you should consider is to try to talk to him in a rational and civil manner. Tell him how much your sorority means to you and that you could lose your affiliation with them. Also, ask some your sisters to help out, that's what they are there for. I agree that you should write to your HQ about the situation and ask them for an extention. I hope these helps. Good luck!