Well, although I live on campus, I won't be living in my house this year (I'll be a counselor in the freshman dorms), so I do have a concern about not being there in the house, with my big and the rest of the pledge class. I'll be there a lot, for chapter and whatnot, but I won't be a part of everyday happenings, which sucks, for real.
Oh yeah--someone mentioned curfews? No men allowed in the rooms? I know that's not an issue in our regular dorms (co-ed by room), but is it something that's covered by individual national organizations, or by the chapter? I know our chapter has specific rules about them, but they're pretty lenient...I guess.