Once again Thank You CT4 for the information from Mother Vandross.
With tears in my eyes, I didn't know that he is her last surviving child.
Her article is a beautiful one. I am looking forward to the day his CD comes out with Dance With My Father. I will be the third person to purchase it!
Luther is still in my prayers. I pray for his recovery and that he wakes up feeling refreshed after a long nap.
I have to laugh, to keep me from crying.
On another note, we all deal with our families illnesses and death differently. But I have to agree with my SF's in that I would be by my child's bedside day & night. When he first opens his eyes, he will see me, his mother and not a stranger (doctor, nurse, etc).