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[QUOTE]Originally posted by delph998
[B]This letter was written in response to an article in the Sister 2
Sister Magazine (January 2000 issue).
Dear Jamie:
I'm sorry but I would like to challenge some of your Black male
readers. I am a White female who is engaged to a Black male-good-looking, educated and loving. I just don't understand a lot of Black female's attitudes about our relationship. My man decided he wanted me because the pickings amongst
Black women were slim to none. As he said they were either too fat, too loud, too mean, too argumentative, too needy, too materialistic or carrying too much excess baggage. Before I became engaged, whenever I went out I was constantly approached by Black men, willing to wine and dine me and
give me the world. If Black women are so up in arms about us being with their men, why don't they look at themselves and make some changes. I am tired of the dirty looks I get and snide remarks when we're out in public. I would like to hear from some Black men about why we are so appealing and coveted by them. Bryant Gumbel just left his wife of 26 years for one of us. Charles
Barkley, Scottie Pippen, the model Tyson Beckford, Montell Williams, Quincy Jones, James Earl Jones, Harry Belafonte, Sydney Poitier, Kofi Anan, Cuba Gooding Jr., Don Cornelius, Berry Gordy, Billy Blanks, Larry Fishburne, Wesley Snipes...I could go on and on. But, right now, I'm a little angry and that is why I wrote this so hurriedly. Don't be mad with us White women because so many of your men want us. Get your acts together and learn
from us and we may lead you to treat your men better. If I'm wrong, Black men, let me know.
Disgusted White Girl, Somewhere in VA.
This is why I have a problem with interracial dating. You have dumb people like the GIRL that wrote the letter thinking that Black Queen's do not know how to treat their men. News flash; we do know how to treat our men. Second, you have dumb brothers that complain about Black Queen's that are exactly like the women that raised him from his mom to his aunts! I can deal with it better if they just say they are attracted to the features and the personality of the person of the opposite race. There is nothing wrong with that. Don't hook up with the opposite race because of my big nose, butt, hips and lips. Yes if you cross me, I can be loud and I will not be quiet. I'll fight you with my words to the death all while providing my own wine and dinner.
The Proud Black Woman
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