Does she have a problem? like literally...is she ill?
It sounds a LOT like my mother, and my mother is mentally ill.
The only thing I do is avoidance...I see her as little as possible. Even screen her calls often.
What's odd is my dad thinks I should try harder to get along(yet they are divorced so he doesn't have to put up with her!).
Anyway, I think you should just keep doin what u r doin, tell your dad you are sorry, but you tried your best. You are now an adult and allowed to make decisions on who gets to abuse you and put you down(cuz it sounds like that's what she's doin).
good luck!
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