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Spike his drinks with Paxil, lol.
Dood, I dotn know what to say, I would think that if you were up front with him and tell him whats up, that might help...
Tell him, "We'd love to come, but I dont know how enjoyable it would be for me and the kids knowing how you like to keep house. I am afraid we'd be way too much of a mess for your tastes." Then if he says no, you wont, you explain his past behavior and say its not worth the hasel. only go if he promisies to lay off a bit.
THe beach house sounds cool, and I'm up on the free place to stay, but come on, with is crap to deal with, your're paying a lot more than what it would cost to rent a beach house if the ocan expreience is that important to you to have for the kids... maybe not so in cash, but your paying in emotional hell. You seem to be an easygoing gal, but unless you posess the amount of "I dont give-a-phuck-ness" that your husband does, you'll hate every minute of it....
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