maybe someone on GC could point her in the way of a good alumni associtation or the name of an alumna in her area who would be willing to correspond with and/or eventually meet her?
I don't know... I go to a school where recs aren't neccessary or important. I read the other thread, and it makes me sad to think that some girls could miss out on the Greek experience b/c they are the first amongst those they know to be greek. I hope you get some info somewhere, I know someone here on GC will come through with some sort of guidence in the right direction. I don't know a THING about recs or I'd give you some info.