[GMUBunny]

My ex was so inherent on me applying to college and making something out of myself. Then, when I got in and started attending classes he changed. He wanted me around all the time (and I mean every spare minute, even if it meant skipping class) but I lived on campus, 20 minutes or more from his house. Things were okay for a while and then I pledged in the spring. The poo really hit the fan then. He said "but you promised me you wouldn't join a sorority" (which is so not true) and always gave me crap about it. Whenever I had an event, he would always talk me into not going and then make me feel guilty for not being there later on. The final straw came at formal in November when he said he didn't want to go to my formal because he hates everything Zeta. I told him fine, that I would find another date (and I did). All of a sudden he wanted everything to do with my sisters, while still claiming he'd be miserable. Anyway, I went to formal with a guy one of my sisters set me up with, left my bf, and am now a happy woman. Any guy who calls you names or makes you feel bad isn't worth it!!! It took me 3 years to realize that he was holding me back. My grades suffered and I wasn't nearly as involved with Zeta as I could have been, and I'm paying for it now. Do what makes you happy!