[justamom]

I cannot get a letter from my legacy relative as she is no longer living. Should I find another alum to write one to take the place of hers?

On your application for recruitment, just make a notation that she is "deceased", but they usually ask for the campus where they initiated. If you CAN get a letter, do so. If rush isn't cut throat, perhaps recs aren't the "norm". Have you posted where you will be going (perhaps I missed it)? Maybe someone on GC has connections so you can get a clearer picture of what is necessary and what is lagniappe.

Arya-you are tooooooo funny! I know of one guy who pledged, depledged, repledged, depledged and then pledged a different fraternity!!! I lost track so I don't know WHAT his status is now. AND, this was at LSU a mere 3 years ago!!!