i understand where you're coming from. i'm part of a "clique" and on the outside of them as well within my sorority. i agree with flyphi in that there are sisters you'd more rather hang out with. my little and i have an apartment next year together, another sister and i go clubbing together...it's kind of hard not being privy to the inside jokes within your sorority that you're not really "inside" with, but that's what a personal relationship in a sorority sometimes entails. as for dealing with it, i suggest to leave it alone, unless it gets bad. if it's at the point where particular sisters are excluding other sisters (or themselves for that matter) from the group, or disturbing the group so much that other members react to it, maybe you should sit them down and chat with them about it. let them know it bothers you and that you're not happy with it. they may not even realize what thier actions really mean. you might be surprised! i hope everything works out for you!!
etienne
sigma alpha iota-the hartt school of music
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"red is the color of music and has been since the very earliest of times. the caps of faeries and musicians are well-nigh always red."~*~w.b.yeats
"I think that happiness is when you can let yourself feel every emotion you want at any time instead of being a lying little fuck." - Tori Amos
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