[honeychile]

We had one sister who would say in one rush of words: "What's your major? Where are you from? What did you like to do in high school?" SO quickly, and then say, "Okay, that's over with, let's really talk!" She said it so funny, that everyone would laugh and feel at ease.

That's what I think the key to rush is. Just as you want people to be comfortable when they visit your home, you should make the pnms feel comfortable at your sorority home! Most of them are probably stressed out enough, it really helps to have a few funny stories ready for the tense pnm.

I think we could devote a whole thread on the respect issue. I was taught to have respect for the pin that the older sisters wear, therefore, show them the dignity it deserves. It's not demeaning or groveling - the way I see it, it's like when you don't care for a President. You may not care for the man, but you really need to show respect for the Office of the Presidency! (and no, I'm not talking about the current President!)