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Originally posted by sigmagrrl
Question: Let's say your guy proposes with an antique ring (used to belong to his great granny, or something) and you really don't like it, what do you do? I mean, I've got to like it to wear it (my hands/rings are my signature), so I can't wear something I don't like. For example, let's say great gran Bertha wore gold. I HATE GOLD, what's a fiance to do?? I feel bad, but I do want something I love...Thoughts?
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I would for sure wear it, for a variety of reasons:
1. I love antiques, so even if I don't like the style, I love the history behind it. I would prefer an antique, vintage or vintage style engagement/wedding ring anyway.
2. It means more, IMO, if a guy gives you something from his family (it's like a symbol of their complete acceptance and inclusion of you into their family) than if he rushes out to the nearest mall jeweler and picks up a ring. Since I'm a sentimental type, it would be that much more special to me.
3. If I really hated the ring, I would probably just wear the ring until the wedding, then wear only the wedding band (which I got to pick out, so I know I'll love it) after we were married, which is perfectly acceptable.
4. I could ask him to get me the ring I *really* like under the guise of a birthday or anniversary gift later on.
5. All my girlfriends would be so *envious* after I tell them the beautiful, romantic story behind *MY* engagement ring!
